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The Mission of Phi Kappa Tau

Week Six: Associate Member Program

What is a "MISSION?"

  • A concise declaration that defines the fraternity's core purpose, what it does, and who it serves today. It acts as a "strategic filter" for daily operations, guiding decisions and inspiring members while clearly communicating the fraternity's fundamental reason for existing.

So...What is the Mission of Phi Kappa tau:

  • To champion a lifelong commitment to brotherhood, learning, ethical leadership, and exemplary character.

LIFELONG COMMITMENT

POINT OF DISCUSSION:

  • The mission doesn't say "four-year commitment" or "college commitment" — it says lifelong. What does that actually obligate you to do at age 45, when you haven't seen most of your brothers in twenty years?

  • Can you name one alum (a father, family friend, or someone you've met) whose post-college life shows what "lifelong" looks like in practice? What does he still do that proves it?

  • What's the difference between a lifelong commitment and a fond memory? How do you make sure this doesn't quietly become the second one?

  • If commitment is lifelong but circumstances change — you move away, get busy with career or family — what's the minimum version of staying committed that still counts as real?

BROTHERHOOD

POINT OF DISCUSSION:

  • The mission lists brotherhood first. What do you think makes it the foundation the other three rest on, rather than, say, ethical leadership being first?

  • Is brotherhood something you feel, something you do, or both? Can you have one without the other?

  • Think of a brother you don't naturally click with. What does "champion brotherhood" require of you toward him specifically, versus toward your closest friends in the chapter?

  • Can brotherhood exist between an associate member and a senior who barely knows him? What has to happen for that gap to close?

LEARNING

POINT OF DISCUSSION:

  • Fraternities aren't schools, so what does "learning" mean here that's different from GPA or classroom performance?

  • What's something you've already learned from your fellow Associate Members or from chapter brothers — not from a class or a chapter program — that changed how you think or act?

  • Is learning in this context mostly about gaining knowledge, or about gaining self-awareness? Can you give an example of each from your own experience so far?

  • How do you keep learning once you're no longer a student — once there's no professor, no syllabus, no grade pushing you to grow?

ETHICAL LEADERSHIP

POINT OF DISCUSSION:

  • Leadership usually gets taught as a skill — building teams, adaptability, conflict management. What does the word "ethical" add to that, and why do you think it's specifically paired with leadership here rather than standing alone?

  • Can someone be an effective leader — get things done, rally people, win elections — but failing at ethical leadership? What would that look like in a chapter?

  • Describe a moment (in the chapter, at work, anywhere) when doing the ethical thing and doing the popular thing were not the same choice. What did you do, and what did it cost you?

  • Do you have to hold a title — president, committee chair — to practice ethical leadership, or can a first-semester Associate Member lead ethically without any formal position? How?

EXEMPLARY CHARACTER

POINT OF DISCUSSION:

  • "Exemplary" means worth imitating. Whose character in your life — inside or outside the fraternity — would you actually want someone to copy? What specifically makes it exemplary rather than just "good enough?"

  • Is character something you have, or something you build through repeated choices? If it's the latter, what's one small choice this week that either built or chipped away at your character?

  • Can you have exemplary character in private — when no chapter brother, professor, or family member will ever know — or does character require an audience to mean anything?

  • What's the difference between character and reputation? Which one does this mission statement actually care about?

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